Parent College Coach Tip #116: Tips for Dads To Help With College Prep
Jun17

Parent College Coach Tip #116: Tips for Dads To Help With College Prep

About a year ago on Twitter one of my followers asked me if I could share some tips for dads to help with college prep. I responded, “I’m not a dad, so I can’t speak for them.” But, it occurred to me that I did know some dads, one in particular, my brother. Both his children went to college. His daughter had a relatively typical college experience. His son, on the other hand, always marched, and still does, to the beat of a different drummer. When I asked my brother to share his best advice, man to man, he graciously agreed to help. Here’s his response, word for word from my blog: “I’m not sure where to begin.  I assume that the dad who wrote you wanted advice about the college process.  I guess I’ll just share how I approached this with Cameron.  Since he’s not the typical kid, my approach was unique to him.  But this is how I did it. I gave guidance, but didn’t try to push him into my expectations for him I stressed the importance of education while he was thinking about what to do after high school I tried to show him how his interests (video production, photography, etc.) would be greatly enhanced by more education I gave him permission to make mistakes and take his time in determining his major I didn’t give him a completely free ride to college – we required that he have some investment I encouraged him to get a job while going to school I encouraged him not to get into debt with loans, but to pay as he could, semester by semester I finally recognized that college may not be his thing, so I gave him permission to say, “I want to do something else”, then I gave him my blessing In retrospect, I think we could have done a better job of setting him up for a better first year away at college.  We found a garage apartment for him to live in, but he lived alone.  I think it would have been a better experience for him if he had other roommates going through the same struggles at college.” ______________________ Cameron chose to get a “real life” education, self-taught on the entrepreneurial route. It has not been an easy path, but he has certainly discovered his strengths and weaknesses while learning much about himself through self-discovery. He’s working at a job in a field he loves: video production. For all you dads out there, the key here, according to my brother, is to know your child, give guidance when needed, stress the importance of an...

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Scholarship Mom Tip #181: Dads Can Help With Scholarships Too!
Jun16

Scholarship Mom Tip #181: Dads Can Help With Scholarships Too!

Good ol’ dad! Most dads work hard to provide for their families and when it comes to paying for college, are frustrated at the high cost of tuition, books, housing, and all other fees that come with having a college student. Luckily, there are several ways dads can help when it comes to the scholarship process.

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